Big Feeling, Calm Choice: Stop, Breathe, Talk Worksheet
Children hear three tricky moments (a swing, a lost game, leaving the park) and pick the calm choice. They learn a three-step routine, Stop, Breathe, Talk, and draw a place where they feel calm.
Part of the pack
Big Feelings Fun Time Little Stars Activity Pack: Feelings Faces, Calm Tools, Crafts & Games for Ages 4-6
This is page 15 of the pack. Ages 4-6 · Pre-K–KindergartenAges 4-6 · Reception–Year 1Ages 4-6 · LKG–UKGAges 4-6
How to use this worksheet
A grown-up reads each moment. Circle the calm choice and draw a rainbow beside it. Number the cards 1, 2, 3 for Stop, Breathe, Talk, then draw your calm place.
Materials needed
- Pencil
- Crayons
Extension activities
- 1Act out the three moments with toys.
- 2Add a calm choice of your own.

Written by
Hemsweta Jain · Teacher Cheena
MBA and Early Childhood Educator, teaching since 2014 · Founder of RaisoActive, Mumbai
Every RaisoActive worksheet is designed and checked by the founder before publishing.
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